5 minute chit chat with unknown person

You should create a network  

At present time it is very difficult to find a single face in millions and millions  who listen to us and care about what we think....
 For a businessman and other jobs we know that if we wants to build our name and fame then we need a network, A network between  businessman-customer,  officer-employe, politician-public, and most important between a father and son, and between two friends.

yes, now you think which kind of network i am talking about, so i make it easy.

This network is your communication, yes  communication
If you working hard and hard but your communication is too bad then your work can't get the importance and respect for that he is eligible and your all hard work and effort getting vain..
You can get its value by improving your talking style...

This is a very imported and very descriptive point for discussing but today i am just talking about how to meet an anonymous person...

How to talk with a unknown person

To make it simple i divide it into some step

 Step 1       First feel facial expression

                   we  all human beings have a weakness that we can't hide our feelings mostly when these are going  higher even good or bad. If we are very happy then anybody can easily can get  it, a.nd also when we are angry or worry every body can read all these by  facial expression of prospect..

so it is most imported for start a chat with anonymous person.

now from that you have  a way to starting point of chat

Step-2       Excuse

                  If you directly asking for introduction and try to be familiar than it is bad idea. Because Nobody want to give his personal information to unknown.. so excuse have a big role

for example if a person standing on any Bus/ railways station then you can ask about any train/ bus to him, or a very famous and most practiced idea of asking time.

Step-3      Say  thank you and shake hands

              For showing yourself as a gentleman you should thanks him for giving answer of your excuse. This is small thing while doing but have a great effect on others.

Step-4      Tell name and ask his name

Now time for introduce each other but very watchful on this step 

first you tell your name to prospect and ask gently..like " sir my name is saurav may i know your good name".

Step-5     Tell place

             After introduced each other you tell prospect that i am live in ..xyz....city may i know where are you from?

Step-6     family

             You should tell him that in my family xyz  member how many members in your family

and carefully ask about every family member and give a positive response on every one..by doing this you can easily can calculate that which kind of person he is and how  he/you can useful for each other..

Step-7     Study

                You asked about his qualification and his purpose of life that what  he wants to achieved in his life.

Step-8     Occupation/ Business

                Now you can ask about his busness and job that what he is doing and what he wants to do?

Step-9     Salary/ income

                Now you ask gently that you can earn sufficient from his business or job? 

                Is this sufficient for you?

                 Do you wants to earn more? 

Step-10   promise

           Now you can tell about your business or job specially if you are a business man then you should earn a investor there if your business plan is good. and
promise him that you help him as more as you can.

Step-11  Exchange contact number

          you really wants to help him so you give your card/contact number and ask about his contact link..

Step-12  Again hand shake

Now you shake hands and take permission to go.. But not forget that this is warm  handshake show your believe and confidence...

Step-13   Thank you

            Say thank to him for giving his important part of time.

i will sharing some very use full  behave in next blog.....

Thanks for giving our attention and time..